betsey-johnson-intimates-satin-stripe-babydollWhen it comes to lingerie, what men and women think are the right kind of lingerie for a woman to wear can be a major difference.

If you are a man you probably have a specific picture of what lingerie should look like. Chances are it should be very sexy and possibly even slutty. But you need to make sure you understand your woman as well.

Here are some things to think of when choosing lingerie for a partner:



Get To Know What She Likes

The first thing you need to know is what your partner likes. All women like different things in lingerie. The best way to get a bead on what your partner likes is to take a look through some lingerie magazines with her and see what she seems to be a fan of. Take a mental note of what she likes and gear your purchases towards those.

Know Her Size

There is nothing worse you can do than purchase the wrong size lingerie for your partner. Consider the possibilities. If you purchase something that is too small, she will feel too large as she tries to get into it. If you get something too big, she will be angry that you think she’s that big. The best things you can do are find something she regularly wears and check the size, or ask her straight out what her size is.

Know the Material

When you are choosing lingerie, make sure that it is not only attractive, but will be comfortable. If the material is itchy or annoying, your partner will not want to wear it, which means it will be money wasted.

Don’t Do Slutty for Slutty

While men love the idea of slutty lingerie, not all women do. When you are selecting an outfit, try to go for something that is flattering to your partner as well as sexy. Not all people look good in the same lingerie, so think of your partner in the piece in addition to just the shape of the piece.

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